The ‘Subtler Truth’ of American Happiness
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My colleague Derek Thompson has written about Americans’ social isolation and anxiety. But this week, he writes, “I thought I’d turn things around for a change. What matters most for happiness—marriage, money, or something else entirely?”
Reading about the key to happiness can sometimes feel like a trick: Could it really be as simple as a given expert makes it out to be? As Derek notes, “Clever sociologists will always find new ways of ‘calculating’ that marriage matters most, or social fitness explains all, or income is paramount.” But his research leads him to what he calls a “subtler truth”—a “happiness trinity” of which “finances, family, and social fitness are three prongs” rising together and falling together.
Today’s newsletter explores some subtler truths about American happiness.
On Happiness
The Happiness Trinity
By Derek Thompson
Why it’s so hard to answer the question What makes us happiest?
Take a Wife … Please!
By Olga Khazan
Why are married people happier than the rest of us?
A Happiness Columnist’s Three Biggest Happiness Rules
By Arthur C. Brooks
A good life isn’t just about getting the details right. Here are some truths that transcend circumstance and time.
Still Curious?
- Ten practical ways to improve happiness: For when you need advice that goes beyond “Be Danish”
- What the longest study on human happiness found is the key to a good life: “We neglect our connections with others at our peril,” Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz write.
Other Diversions
P.S.
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— Isabel