I’m a private investigator – the telltale signs your partner is cheating on you
NO one wants to find out that their significant other is cheating on them.
But if you can spot the signs, you can get the upper hand in the relationship and it may even help prevent further heartbreak.
Aaron Bond from BondRees.com can spot a cheater from far and wide thanks to his career as a private investigator.
Bond has shared the telltale signs you need to look out for if you suspect your partner of cheating.
PARTNER HAS CHANGED HOW THEY COMMUNICATE
Communication really is the key in any relationship, so if something has changed in that aspect, your relationship may be in trouble.
Bond said that a lack of communication from your partner is never a good sign.
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He added: “If your partner doesn’t discuss their day with you or isn’t interested in yours there’s usually something going on.”
A CHANGE IN APPEARANCE
According to Bond, a change in your partner’s appearance isn’t a sign of infidelity on its own.
The problem comes when the change in appearance is accompanied by other troubling behavior.
“A new haircut, going to the gym more, or taking on new hobbies that require them to be away from home for longer, could be a sign of infidelity,” Bond said.
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PARTNER IS AVOIDING YOU
If your partner is suddenly avoiding you or doesn’t want to do things they normally do with you, that could be a major red flag.
Bond explained that this behavior could be accompanied by your partner taking part in hobbies that don’t include you or a lack of interest in things that used to interest them.
The private investigator explained further: “This behavior can spiral and to the outside world, they will look as if they are in a depressed state.
“They will seem lazier than usual, they won’t want to do anything and they may even stop showing love to your children.
“In this state, your partner won’t care about anything else than their other life.”
A CHANGE IN YOUR SEX LIFE
According to Bond, there are two different changes to your sex life that should be a cause for concern.
First, if your partner suddenly has no interest in being intimate with you and doesn’t show you any affection, that could be a sign of cheating.
Also, if your partner is bringing in new techniques such as toys, positions, etc., into the bedroom, they could be learning that from someone else.
PARTNER IS ON THEIR CELL PHONE MORE OFTEN
Nowadays, it’s easier than ever to be unfaithful in a relationship thanks to social media and new technology.
Bond warned: “If your partner has started to use their phone more often or they are more secretive or they face their phone down when not in use you should be concerned.”
Another red flag is if your partner recently changed their password on their phone or computer.
A COMBINATION OF THESE SIGNS
A lot of times, people will have some sort of explanation for these signs and they may very well be a faithful partner.
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However, if your partner starts to exhibit many of these signs, it’s probably time to run for the hills.
Bond said: “When these signs are combined it’s a very good indicator that your partner is cheating on you.”
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