The real value of executive coaching for high-performing founders
In my 20+ years as an executive coach, I’ve stood by the side of many founders. Leading organisations and teams can be a rollercoaster ride, my clients are often peeking through their fingers as they negotiate the ups and downs, but it’s brilliant and so rewarding to support them and watch what they achieve. A privilege. I usually know nothing about their business. I don’t need to. I’m a coach. I’m not a mentor or consultant.
So, what challenges do founders face that make them reach for executive coaching?
The business takes on a life of its own
It launches well, growth gains momentum and before the founder realises, it develops arms and legs and starts running away with itself. It’s moving fast and the founder is running out of breath because they’re sprinting to keep up. They recognise the pace isn’t sustainable.
Growing expectations
Investors put money in and expect returns and deliverables. Board packs need prepping. Executive teams demand time together to manage it all. Rapid growth calls for a deeper level of maturity across the business. Running or working faster doesn’t fix it, founders must do something different. But what? They crave space and time to work it out.
The evolving team
Many founders believe team members need to be replicas of themselves to be successful. They find it difficult to let go of their business baby. Who can they trust to facilitate stable growth?
Brain switching
Founders are constantly scaling the ladder from clouds and vision to granular minutia, dancing between doing and leading. It’s relentless, chaotic, and tough on the neurons. They are stretched, states are constantly heightened. They need regulated thinking to feel like they are making safe decisions.
Always going first
Everyone looks to the founder for answers; there’s often no one they can speak to, they have to give the right answer. There’s no rule book and no one to show them the way. They rely on their own experience, the quality of the thing they’ve created, instinct, and logic. It lands on their shoulders first. And that’s a weight to carry.
What real value does executive coaching bring to leaders who are experiencing these challenges?
Well in my experience, it’s never just the coach that creates stability. It’s the team around the founder, the mentors, consultants, and board. In my experience, high performing founders have these people in their corner, an executive coach is part of that team.
I believe founders have resources within them to find solutions to their problems and achieve their goals. A coach’s job is to use their skills to unlock those solutions, such as:
Pulling them back to what matters
Executive coaches stand alongside their clients, seeing their world through their eyes, empathising and tuning into what truly matters. They understand their client’s “why,” their purpose, and the organisation’s direction of travel. The coach keeps this front and centre in the client’s awareness, ensuring every action and decision remains aligned with that.
Staying in role
Executive coaching keeps a founder operating in the right space, exploring where their energies are best placed to lead the business strategically, ensuring their time is spent doing the right things. The value coaching brings is that the leader not only knows where and with whom they need to send their time. They also go into these spaces feeling focussed, congruent and ready.
Being a leader
Switching from creator to leader, developer to CEO, engineer to managing director requires a shift in identity. A coach helps founders have absolute clarity about what it takes to be a leader and how they can work with their team to liberate and enable them.
Leading now and in the future as their best
What I’ve talked about so far is somewhat strategic. The founder valuing the space the coach creates and their skills, tools, and approaches to help them gain clarity.
But it’s more than that.
Working with an executive coach is an investment in transformation. We create a sense of clarity within the founder out of a feeling of chaos. We provide perspective and distance from things that feel overwhelming and pressured.
High performing founders value coaching for the confidence it brings. When done well, executive coaching becomes a proactive space where leaders build the capacity to navigate complexity, grow into the leader they aspire to be, and become someone their team genuinely wants to follow. They gain clarity and the confidence to lead from the front and, with the coach’s support, show up as their very best.
The value in executive coaching doesn’t come from “fixing” founders. The value is in the space and support to unlock how they lead everything in the way the business needs, doing it all at their best.
Nicola Ellwood is a Master Executive Coach (MSc, FMAC) performance and leadership transformation specialist (IIHNLP, ANLP) with more than two decades of experience in supporting senior leaders and high performers. Nicola is also Founder of the Being our Best Exec Community, a community for executives in organisations who want to unlock the very best of outcomes.
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