4 Zodiacs Who Have Been Looking In All The Wrong Places For Happiness

ARIES

You think control will bring you happiness, Aries. You are the conqueror, the warrior, the colonizer, vanquishing anything that stands in your path. You see yourself as a trailblazer, exploring new horizons, but in reality, your harsh approach pushes anything away before it has a chance to get close to you. You fear what’s different, what’s unknown, so you try to squash it before anything bad can happen, which also means you never give anything a chance for good to happen either. Happiness comes from living in harmony with the people around you. From listening to others and learning from them. From becoming part of something bigger than yourself, not trying to mandate and dominate everything around you. You need community, not a dictatorship.

VIRGO

You grew up in a very competitive environment, Virgo. You played sports, you auditioned for the lead role, and you always had the highest test scores. And people praised you for your performance. So you’ve learned to equate winning with happiness and ingrained it somewhere in your core that losing will make you miserable, but you’ve never contemplated the third option, which is not competing at all. Running just for the thrill of movement, not in a race. Acquiring skills that don’t need to be judged, like learning to grow plants or knitting. There are ways to feel proud of yourself that don’t require praise from anyone but yourself. This is where you’ll find your truest happiness. 

LIBRA

You think happiness resides in safety, Libra. In playing by the rules. In saving as much as possible, in looking both ways before you cross the street, and wearing sunblock, even on days you don’t leave the house. While there’s nothing horrendously wrong about any of those things, you absolutely have to learn how to treat yourself in order to find satisfaction in life. A life without coffee and avocados will save you some money in the long run, but if you never spend it on anything significant, it’s just deprivation for propriety’s sake. Your choices need purpose behind them. Living within your means doesn’t mean you have to live drastically below them either. 

AQUARIUS

You have this notion that happiness means giving every part of you to everyone constantly. Being the best friend, the parental figure, the therapist, the coach, the significant other. And never asking for anything in return. You see yourself as this never-ending supply of love, and if you just give, give, give to everyone your life will have purpose and meaning and you’ll never have anything to be sad about because you are so many things to so many people. The truth is even your batteries get depleted and need to be recharged, Aquarius. You can’t do it all alone, and you need reciprocation in life. It doesn’t make you any less admirable. You need people who will give back to you and encourage you to grow and evolve. That’s where you’ll find your happiness.