All Of The Bombshells Jessi Draper Revealed About Her Marriage On 'Call Her Daddy'

Jessi Draper did not hold back when discussing her marriage and divorce during her appearance on Call Her Daddy.

On March 25, The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives star joined host Alex Cooper to discuss her breakup shortly after husband Jordan Ngatikaura filed for divorce on March 19. “I found out that he filed through TMZ,” the 33-year-old star said in the episode. “I did end it with him, so I knew it was coming, but he blindsided me because he wanted the headline first.”

Jessi and Jordan’s marriage issues have been a key storyline in their Hulu reality show, which explored Jordan’s alleged history of emotional abuse and Jessi’s brief emotional affair with Vanderpump Villa star Marciano Brunette. However, on Call Her Daddy, Jessi divulged several never-before-heard details about her estranged husband, with whom she shares two kids.

Jordan Allegedly Contacted An Escort Service During Their Marriage

Jessi alleged that a sex worker reached out to her to claim that Jordan contacted an escort service during a work trip in Texas before their show. “I do have proof and screenshots that when season one dropped, I had an escort service reach out to me and they sent me screenshots of his phone number and messages and he was trying to meet up with them,” she said.

“[A worker for the escort service] called me and was like, ‘I work for this, you can like look into it.’ She sent me so much proof,” Jessi added. She said Jordan denied the claim when she confronted him about it, but she struggled to believe him. Jessi added that when she kissed Marciano, she was still navigating the escort issue.

Jessi Hinted That Jordan Attended ‘Orgies’ While Married

Jessi also addressed a rumor she heard that Jordan was “paying for parties” during the five-year marriage.

“I have to believe they are orgies, like sex parties,” Jessi said. “I dunno what other kind of parties you would pay for. Like, you just go to a party, you know? So that’s what I have to believe.”

Jessi said that she has “actually never asked” Jordan about this claim. “I just heard about it. But the funny thing is I heard through my sister who heard from someone who was there and now it’s also being reported. So I’m like, clearly there’s some truth to it,” she said.

Jessi added that a month ago, her brother-in-law’s friend claimed Jordan was spotted at the parties shortly after their daughter, Jovi, was born in January 2023. “And he goes, ‘I go to these parties and he’s always there. And especially when they had their daughter, he was there a lot,'” she said.

Jessi Claimed Jordan ‘Spied’ On Her During Their Relationship

Jessi revealed that she changed her number and is only using her old number to communicate with Jordan about their kids because he has a history of “spying” on her.

Jessi recalled that in May 2025, she exchanged a voice memo with reality star Harry Jowsey because they have the same birthday. Jessi claimed that Jordan confronted her about the message and alleged, “He hacked my Instagram while we were separated, he created a fake phone number to then send himself the audios and then have the phone number say, ‘Dude, I think you should know about this. Your wife is cheating on you,'” she said.

“He has tracked me, he has listened in on my cameras in my house,” she added. “He’s calculated.”

Jessi Claims Jordan Asked Her To Do Pilates ‘Every Single Day’

Jessi claimed that Jordan would constantly criticize her during their marriage. “Anything I did, how I ran my business, how I parented, my time management, how I cleaned the house,” she said, adding that he would also make comments about her physical appearance.

“He told me he wanted me to start doing pilates every single day,” she said, claiming he also told her that Jordan said he “believes in traditional gender roles” and wanted her to be more “feminine.”

Jessi Said Jordan Was ‘Blackmailing Her’ Over Her Affair

After opening up to Jordan about her affair with Marciano, Jessi said they decided to stay together, but Jordan would frequently use screenshots of her texts with Marciano as a way of “blackmailing” her prior to the affair coming to light on The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

“He was blackmailing me with the Marciano texts,” she said. “He had them on a draft on his phone on TikTok, and any time he was mad at me he [would say] ‘I’m gonna post them, I’m gonna ruin your life.'”

Jessi Said She Hooked Up With Jordan After Asking For A Divorce

The JZ Styles founder said that she is no longer in contact with Jordan and is co-parenting with him through a third party, but before she cut contact, she did have one final night with Jordan.

Jessi said that she had a wine night with her friends while staying in a hotel two days after asking for a divorce. “I just felt so like I didn’t have a home, like I was so misplaced,” she said, revealing that she Ubered home at 4 am to be with her family. “I went into the bed, and he was there, and I ended up having sex with him.”

“After that moment, I was like never again,” she said.