What happens after you retire early? People who have done it in their 30s describe boredom, identity shifts, and second thoughts.
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- Business Insider has spoken with many people chasing early retirement.
- Those who have achieved it say that life after work isn't without challenges.
- Early retirement can be rewarding, but it can also raise deeper questions about purpose.
The Financial Independence, Retire Early (FIRE) movement is often centered on numbers: net worth targets, savings rates, investment growth, and the age at which you can finally leave work behind.
An intense focus on accumulation, however, can come with tradeoffs.
Business Insider has spoken with a handful of inidivuals pursuing early retirement, and some of them say that chasing FIRE meant not being able to fully live in the present. Plus, once they stepped away from work, they had to confront a bigger question than how much money was enough: What, exactly, were they retiring for?
That was true for Josette Chang, who left her finance job in 2024, Gwendolyn Merz, who quit her 9-to-5 at 28 and returned to W-2 work months later, and Rose Han, who achieved financial freedom in her early 30s only to realize that freedom alone wasn't enough. Their experiences suggest that, while early retirement can be rewarding, it can also raise deeper questions about purpose, identity, and how much is enough.
What happens after hitting early retirement?
For Chang, who quit after she and her husband hit their FIRE number, early retirement has been "a blessing." She feels grateful to no longer have a calendar filled with obligations or a boss dictating her time, but she also wishes she had spent more time thinking about what came after.
Chang said many conversations in the FIRE community focus on how to retire early, not how to build a satisfying life once you get there. After the novelty wore off, she had to figure out how she actually wanted to spend her days.
"At first, sure, Netflix and movies keep you busy for a few weeks," she said. "But after that, I started asking myself: How do I want to spend my time? What do I really value? What relationships and communities matter most to me?"
She's still figuring out the answers through trial and error. She experiments with activities, drops the ones that don't resonate, and keeps refining her routine to focus on what brings her meaning and joy.
Merz's path led her to a similar realization. After graduating, she struggled with the transition from college to corporate life. Stuck in a job she didn't like, she found the FIRE movement and dove in, cutting expenses aggressively, tracking every dollar, and saving as much as 78% of her income. That discipline helped her build a nest egg of about $200,000 in five years.
Her war chest gave her the confidence to walk away from the corporate world. She didn't plan to stop working completely. During her "super saving" era, she built additional revenue streams, including freelance writing and podcasting, and decided to work for herself and draw down from her savings when necessary.
Several parts of the plan fell short: much of her money was locked up in retirement accounts, healthcare costs were higher than expected, and self-employment was more stressful than freeing.
"I realized that working my fingers to the bone and not having a great time being my own boss wasn't worth it," she said.
Within nine months, Merz had returned to a W-2 job. The experience reshaped her relationship with both work and money. She realized she preferred the stability of a steady paycheck and that, in the right environment, work didn't have to feel miserable. She no longer plans to retire in her 30s or 40s, but she still expects to stop working well before traditional retirement age.
Han also found that reaching a version of early retirement didn't deliver the fulfillment she expected. For years, she focused intensely on making more, spending less, and investing aggressively. That discipline helped her pay off roughly $100,000 in student debt and build a seven-figure net worth, allowing her to quit her Wall Street job.
But the result of that discipline — living in a camper van with the freedom she had long wanted — didn't live up to the hype. The excitement faded quickly.
"It was fun for like the first six months," she said. But less than a year into early retirement, "I found that I got bored and didn't feel all that fulfilled."
That experience pushed Han to question not just early retirement, but the accumulation mindset that can come with pursuing FIRE.
"The overall emphasis on money and the accumulation of money has just gotten out of hand," she said. In her view, that mindset can pull people away from what "really, really matters," including time with loved ones and building relationships.
Even after reaching a $1 million net worth, she found herself thinking: "OK, well, now why don't I get to $10 million?" That instinct made her stop and ask a bigger question: How much is enough?
"I feel like that's one outdated piece of advice," she said. "Overemphasis on accumulating money and dollars versus accumulating moments and core memories that you can never replace."
Han said leaving work made her realize she had been chasing the wrong goal. Instead of asking how to retire early, she now believes the better question is how to build a life you don't want to retire from.