37 Extraordinary Gifts for Discerning Young Minds
The main thing I have learned since becoming a parent is that the only thing that doesn’t become harder when you become a parent is accumulating an avalanche of plastic beeping, blinking gizmos. In my blissfully unaware, pre-parent days, I naively never considered that, while my nieces and nephews might enjoy these raucous gadgets, what I was actually giving my weary siblings was yet another vessel by which to lose their minds. Once I crossed the threshold into parenthood myself, I realized the shameful, harsh truth: most things masquerading as toys are pretty much just future landfill.
Shortly after becoming a parent, you’ll begin playing a fun new game called “Donate or Destroy?” on a more regular basis than you might change your sheets, purging your home of toy detritus with the steely resolve of a Kondō disciple. In the process, you’ll develop a sixth sense for identifying presents with a lifespan longer than their batteries, because you’ll have learned that finding gifts that spark imagination instead of noise complaints can feel like panning for gold in a sea of discarded Happy Meal trinkets.
This guide is the result of countless hours I’ve spent scouring shelves, testing doodads and observing my own pint-sized critics (ages three and five) systematically destroy contenders. These picks are ostensibly for the 4- to 6-year-old set, but don’t be misled by Big Toy’s arbitrary age recommendations. The items below captivate through their power to illuminate everyday wonder—whether in science, nature or even the art of “trash”—and transform it into something unforgettable. So put down that flashing, squawking, oops-it-already-broke junk that the kids on your holiday list will forget in five minutes. Cancel your bulk order of earplugs. Proceed with newfound wisdom.
Extraordinary Gifts for Extraordinary Kids
- Periodic Table of NYC Trash
- Darwin’s ‘Super-Pooping Worm Spectacular’
- Impression Pin Art Toy
- The Panda Drum Mini
- Maria Kalman’s ‘What Pete Ate’
- Stamp Bugs
- Mon Coeur Pocket Sweatshirt
- Dearist Letter-Writing Kit
- World Wildlife Fund Nesting Dolls
- ChappyWrap’s ABC Blanket
- Rilla Alexander’s Palimals
- Japanese Cat Washi Tape
- WMS&CO. Seasons Crayon Set
- James Paulius’ Blockitecture
- The Super Book of Gems
- NASA Lunch Box
- ‘The Octopus Escapes’
- Cupkin Sticker Books
- Bug Bingo
- Babsy Build-a-Brush Kit
- Moon Picnic’s ‘Make a Face’
- Mess Kids T-shirt by Urs Fischer
- MTA Motorized Train Set
- The Great Pretenders’ Dragon Cape
- Pink Chicken’s ‘Animals of Asia’ Print
- 7AM Enfant’s ‘Roll Me’ Packable Puffer
- Hanno the Gorilla
- Kala Surf Green Soprano Shark Ukulele
- Kodiak Jumbo Plush Bear
- Washable Acrylic Paint Markers
- Galileo’s Thermometer
- Paola Pivi’s ‘Bad Idea’
- Odin Parker Music Box
- GEOWorld’s Bug Marbles
- ‘Astrophysics For Young People in a Hurry’
- Pocket Scope Binoculars
- Animal Icon 10-In-1 Ballpoint Pen
Periodic Table of NYC Trash
Every couple of weeks, my kids will ask, “Mommy? What’s New York City like?” which inevitably leads me to point to the Periodic Table of NYC Trash hanging in my office and say, “Let’s take a look!” As my children gaze upon the 118 naturally occurring elements found on the streets of New York, they begin to question the stories behind each piece of trash. They wonder about the people who discard these items, the reasons behind their disposal, and the environmental impact of these objects. I purchased this years ago and, after almost a decade of cohabitation, I remain convinced it’s the perfect gift to encourage critical thinking about consumption and develop a wise understanding of all the riches Manhattan has to offer.
Darwin’s ‘Super-Pooping Worm Spectacular’
In terms of gross things kids like, Darwin’s Super-Pooping Worm Spectacular is a multitasking success. This wonderfully illustrated book sheds light on a lesser-known aspect of Charles Darwin’s intense fascination with the slimy, wiggly creatures (worms) that keep our soil healthy (poop). Darwin spent 40 years studying worms, going to great lengths to prove that worms are more than just icky crawlies. Amidst the laughter and fun facts, there’s a more profound message about the importance of perseverance and standing up for what you believe in. Darwin’s peers may have mocked his fascination with worms, but he never let their teasing deter him from his groundbreaking research.
Impression Pin Art Toy
I’ve yet to meet a child who hasn’t delighted in the endless possibilities of this toy. They can place it on top of other toys, a sleeping pet’s face, or create mashups of textures and impressions made by everyday objects around the house. Not only does a pin art toy provide hours of entertainment, but it also encourages the development of fine motor skills, hand-eye coordination and spatial awareness. It is hard to wash, though, so do your best to discourage using it to “see how slime works.”
The Panda Drum Mini
Unlike the cacophony of plastic monstrosities that pass for children’s toys/sound like bags of broken glass, the Panda Drum produces soothing, harmonious tones that lull you into a zen-like state (or at least spare the onset of a migraine). With its foolproof numbered system and accompanying songbook, even the most rhythmically challenged can tap out a tune.
Maria Kalman’s ‘What Pete Ate’
At its heart, What Pete Ate from A-Z is a celebration of the unbreakable bond between a dog and his human. I acquired our copy at a used book sale this summer. It wasn’t long before Maira Kalman’s quirky romp through the alphabet accompanied me on a short-lived post as a mystery reader, allowing the opportunity to teach a bunch of five-year-olds that ‘Fez’ is both a hat and a city (Pete ate the hat). The book follows Poppy Wise’s mischievous dog, Pete, as he devours his way through an astonishing array of items, from accordions to underpants. Despite Pete’s insatiable appetite for mischief, Poppy can’t help but love her unruly pup. It’s a sentiment that will resonate with dog owners and animal lovers of all ages.
Stamp Bugs
This precious set takes the concept of stamps to a whole new level, offering a diverse assortment of insect shapes and textures that allow your child to craft their own unique bugs. With 25 wood-backed rubber stamps featuring an array of antennae, wings, legs and body parts, the possibilities are endless. Mix and match the components to create a buzzing hive of bumblebees, a graceful swarm of dragonflies, or a world of imaginary bugs that defy classification.
Mon Coeur Pocket Sweatshirt
Ever since my son was given Mon Coeur’s pocket sweatshirt, it has been a go-to. This versatile and sustainable garment is crafted from a blend of reclaimed, organic cotton, but the standout feature, of course, is the functional pocket into which your child can and will stuff all the tiny treasures they collect throughout the day—or insist on bringing with them each time they leave the house. As a brand, Mon Coeur is committed to creating a world where the planet comes first. Every item Mon Coeur makes is sustainably made using upcycled cotton, watercolor prints and non-toxic inks.
Dearist Letter-Writing Kit
On a recent Sunday afternoon, I stumbled upon a heartfelt letter from my son, addressed to his little sister. “Dear Cosima, I love you, but leave me alone.” It’s never too early to introduce your child to the art of letter writing with the Dearist book and stationery series. It’s a gift that fosters empathy, creativity and communication of the complex emotions that come with being an older sibling.
World Wildlife Fund Nesting Dolls
Do your kids love nesting dolls? Animals? Preservation? Try this set of hand-painted wooden animal nesting dolls, each representing a species that the World Wildlife Fund strives to protect. Pop off the top of the tiger to reveal a snow leopard, followed by a red panda, a sloth and, finally, a delightful little ladybug. More than just a playful decoration, these nesting dolls serve as a reminder of the incredible biodiversity our planet holds and the importance of preserving it for future generations.
ChappyWrap’s ABC Blanket
We have several ChappyWrap blankets‚ and they’re fought over constantly. If you can look past the epic battles this blanket will incite between your darling munchkins, I cannot recommend it enough. The brand’s ABC print features a vibrant mix of playful colors, crafted with the utmost attention to quality and woven in Europe. It is resistant to shrinking, pilling, fuzz and tug-of-war. The ‘midi’ size, measuring 40″ x 60″, is ideal for both home and travel, ensuring that your child always has a comforting and familiar piece wherever they go.
Rilla Alexander’s Palimals
Designed by the imaginative Rilla Alexander, Palimals are a colorful reminder of the importance of cherishing our connections with others—both literally and figuratively. With cleverly embedded magnets in their hands, Palimals can link arms, hold hands or even clamber up the fridge. Crafted from wood, non-toxic paint, cotton rope and magnets, these endearing animals are as safe and durable as they are adorable.
Japanese Cat Washi Tape
My kids love tape, and I can’t imagine they are alone in their pursuit of peeling, sticking and wrapping it around anything they can reach. Thankfully, with washi tape, you don’t have to worry about ruined walls or trails of gummy residue. Each roll showcases a variety of adorable cats engaging in everyday activities by Nachio Nakanishi, the illustrator and chef behind the pop-up restaurant Toraneko Bonbon.
WMS&CO. Seasons Crayon Set
These bean wax crayons, shaped like miniature building blocks, double as both drawing tools and playthings, making them the perfect multitasking sidekick for your little Picasso. The set’s 23 distinct colors, carefully arranged in four seasonal boxes, are crafted from natural, non-toxic ingredients that won’t leave you frantically Googling “is crayon consumption fatal?” (Answer: No, but it’s hard to brush out of teeth—a lesson we thankfully did not learn firsthand, but acquired in the process of providing a nonjudgmental ear when our neighbors lamented the black wax gumming up their kid’s chompers.)
James Paulius’ Blockitecture
Want your child to unleash their inner Frank Lloyd Wright? Blockitecture, the brainchild of New York City-based designer James Paulius, is a set of architectural building blocks crafted from New Zealand pine and water-based paint, ensuring your budding architect’s creations are as eco-friendly as they are impressive. The hexagonal blocks, which vary in size, can be cantilevered and nested to form towers, cities and dwellings that would make even the most jaded urban planner swoon.
The Super Book of Gems
Each time my daughter and I marvel at the dazzling photographs of exquisite jewelry and awe-inspiring gemstones in the Super Book of Gems, her eyes light up with gold-digging mischief. “Mommy, look!” she exclaims, as if on cue, pointing to a breathtaking six-figure diamond necklace. “Santa’s going to bring us one of these this year, right?” (I can only hope she’s got some crystal ball and is correct about our pending bounties.) Packed with dazzling photographs of jewelry and awe-inspiring gems, this book is a feast for the eyes and a treasure trove of knowledge. As kids (and adults) explore each birthstone month by month, they’ll uncover the unique properties, legends and artistic significance behind nature’s most beautiful creations.
NASA Lunch Box
Over winter break last year, we took a trip to the National Air and Space Museum. It was great! Of course, we had to visit the gift shop before leaving, which was also great—but (also of course) resulted in a series of negotiations around what we do and do not need more of in our house and what my husband and I were and were not willing to bring home. Because we never need more toys, stuffed animals or trinkets, we returned home with two of these spiffy lunch boxes. Featuring NASA’s iconic “meatball” insignia embossed on the lid, the durable tin design is the perfect size for small meals—and equally as suitable for containing the hundreds of Legos, rocks and Barbie shoes scattered about your house.
‘The Octopus Escapes’
My stepmother is a woman of many talents. The talent I have come to appreciate the most over the last 5+ years is her incredible taste in and ability to source fantastic children’s books. This summer, I stumbled upon The Octopus Escapes in the guest room reserved for grandchildren, accordingly stocked with an assortment of such hardcover marvels, chosen by the fairy godmother herself. The Octopus Escapes is a heartwarming tale of an octopus who is content in his underwater cave until a diver captures him and takes him to live in an aquarium. Despite the humans providing food and toys, the octopus grows weary of his captive life and longs for the freedom of the open sea. It is a story of resilience, independence and the bond between creatures and their natural habitats, written by author Maile Meloy and beautifully illustrated by Felicita Sala.
Cupkin Sticker Books
We have more Cupkin sticker books strewn about our house than I can count or care to admit publicly. There’s something about the quality of the paper—it’s absorbent but smooth, and thick enough that the ink doesn’t bleed through—that makes them really pleasant to color (speaking from experience). Each is packed with over 500 stickers and 12 unique scenes, with themes like birds, bugs, museums, sports, dinosaurs, cars and more. The lay-flat design features side-by-side sticker pages and scenes, and the spiral binding allows tiny (and adult-sized) hands to navigate the book easily, spending more time creating and less time flipping pages.
Bug Bingo
I first learned of this delightful, entomological twist on the classic game of bingo through a friend with kids slightly older than my own. (Sometimes, social media is good.) Illustrated by Christine Berry, the game features 64 different bug species, from common favorites like the honeybee to exotic creatures such as the Giant Hawker Dragonfly and the enigmatic Vampire Moth. As they play, kids will expand their knowledge of insects, learning to identify and develop an appreciation for a diverse array of bugs from around the world.
Babsy Build-a-Brush Kit
A toothbrush? For Christmas? Hear me out. Babsy collaborated with industrial design firm Leadoff Studio to recast dental hygiene into an experience beyond rowing with your kids over the right amount of time to spend brushing their teeth and/or explaining why toothpaste isn’t to be swallowed. Each set comes with two brush heads and six colorful, interchangeable bits, featuring designs like a cheetah, ice cream and a sloth (because why not?). Developed by Jordan Diatlo, a father and creative director who drew inspiration from action figures and cognitive learning toys, this hands-on approach promotes healthy habits and fine motor skills. Plus, research shows that analog design outperforms over-engineered tech when it comes to building trust and daily routines.
Moon Picnic’s ‘Make a Face’
Moon Picnic’s ‘Make a Face’ toy is here to help little ones navigate the complex world of emotions. This investment in emotional intelligence offers hundreds of expressions, ensuring your child will never be at a loss for words (or faces) when it comes to describing their mood. Turn and flip the solid beech wood pieces to create a visage that perfectly captures the essence of your child’s emotional state, from “I just discovered candy” to “I’m contemplating the futility of existence.”
Mess Kids T-shirt by Urs Fischer
Contrary to popular belief, there’s no wrong way to make a snowman. Drive this point home and embrace the chaos of childhood with the Mess Kids T-shirt by Urs Fischer, featuring a disheveled snowman who seems to have misplaced his facial features. Created by Fischer during his 2019 takeover of the Gagosian Shop in New York, it is part of a series of snowmen drawn by the artist. Each snowman finds itself in a delightfully absurd scenario, celebrating the joy and spontaneity of a child’s imagination.
MTA Motorized Train Set
With three authentic replicas of NYC MTA trains and 16 pieces of track, kids can build their own miniature version of the New York City subway system right in their living room—minus the rats, smells, flooding and unexplained delays. When assembled, the track spans an impressive 39 inches by 25 inches, providing kids with ample room to create intricate layouts and exciting routes for their trains to navigate.
The Great Pretenders’ Dragon Cape
The best part about this cape is that your kid won’t grow out of it. We have several, and they’ve become a cherished part of our dress-up collection—and I have reason to believe they will remain that way for years to come. The second-best part of this cape is that it’s machine washable, making it easy to care for even after the most spirited play sessions.
Pink Chicken’s ‘Animals of Asia’ Print
Do your kids love animals? Do you need nice outfits for picture day? Artist Darcie Olley’s enchanting design features a lush forest populated by tigers, pandas, peacocks and more. Available in a darling frock and a handsome button-down, consider this a gift that will delight not only its young recipient but also demonstrate your impeccable taste and appreciation for artisanal design.
7AM Enfant’s ‘Roll Me’ Packable Puffer
From the company that introduced the game-changing stroller mitts to urban mothers: Keep your little one warm and comfortable during those unpredictable in-between seasons. When not in use, the jacket rolls up into its own pouch, making it a breeze to store—and providing hours of entertainment for youths who enjoy challenging the laws of physics by continually squeezing big things into small things. The recycled poly filling offers exceptional warmth without the bulk, and with its machine-washable fabric, keeping the Roll Me Puffer looking its best is a breeze.
Hanno the Gorilla
David Weeks understands the importance of durability in children’s toys. Hanno the Gorilla’s powerful hardwood frame and elastic-band muscles make him a versatile and engaging companion, built to last for generations. At 11.5 x 5 x 2.5 inches, he’s just the right size for little hands to grasp and manipulate, while also being large enough to assert his dominance over lesser toys. Don’t be surprised if he becomes the alpha of the toy box.
Kala Surf Green Soprano Shark Ukulele
Few gifts strike the balance between playful and profound like a child’s first instrument, and this ukulele hits that sweet spot. Sized perfectly for small hands, it invites kids to strum, experiment and discover the joy of making music without intimidation. Its cheerful design and bright tone make practice feel more like play, while the sturdy build ensures it can handle the inevitable bumps of beginner enthusiasm. It’s a gateway to rhythm, creativity and confidence—helping young musicians learn that music isn’t just something you listen to, but something you create.
Kodiak Jumbo Plush Bear
Sadly, we do not own this beautiful bear, so I cannot speak from experience. I am, however, deeply familiar with Manhattan Toy Company, a pioneer of developmental play since 1978. At 40 inches tall, 32 inches long and 30 inches wide, this lovable beast is the perfect companion for any child lucky enough to meet him. The Kodiak Bear is far from intimidating, and the attention to detail is remarkable. If you’re seeking a splurge, this is it.
Washable Acrylic Paint Markers
If your kids churn through markers (why is it so hard to put the caps back on?) and you’re in the market for yet another set, try Ohuhu’s ultra-washable, non-toxic, skin-friendly acrylic version—featuring a water-based ink that easily washes off skin and clothing. The bullet tip is versatile enough for both broad strokes and fine details, and the acrylic paint formula provides better coverage than traditional washable markers.
Galileo’s Thermometer
What better way to teach a child about the science of temperatures than with the OG, Galileo’s thermometer? This tall glass cylinder is filled with colorful floating bulbs, which turn temperature shifts into a mesmerizing dance and learning moment. As the liquid warms or cools, the bulbs rise and fall, inviting kids to wonder how density and physics work in real life. It’s the kind of object that sparks questions (“Why does that one sink?”) and encourages hands‑on exploration without a screen in sight. Beyond its educational charm, it doubles as a striking piece of décor—proof that science can be beautiful, and that curiosity belongs on display.
Paola Pivi’s ‘Bad Idea’
It is never a bad idea to expose children to art, and despite the title, Paola Pivi’s ‘Bad Idea’ is an excellent gift for any child who loves animals. The 27.5 x 19.6-inch print is part of a limited-edition run produced by Perrotin in 2022 and is still available for sale on Artsy. Each print is hand-signed and numbered by Pivi—an artist known for mesmerizing sculptures, photographs, films and installations that often feature animals, such as this thoughtful polar bear.
Odin Parker Music Box
Few things on this list make noise, for good reason. This wooden music box made the cut because it captures the quiet magic of the ocean, with sea creatures that glide in circles as a gentle tune plays. It’s the kind of piece that draws children in, encouraging them to linger, watch and imagine stories beneath the waves. Beyond its soothing motion, it teaches patience and appreciation for simple beauty—qualities that outlast any fad toy. Parents will love how it doubles as a keepsake, while kids will treasure the ritual of winding it up and watching their underwater world come to life.
GEOWorld’s Bug Marbles
For a child with a keen interest in entomology or natural science, GEOWorld’s Bug Marbles are an exciting and engaging gift. All eight marbles in the set feature a real insect or spider specimen, the scientific names of which are detailed on the packaging. Yes, some children may find the idea of insects trapped inside marbles unsettling or disturbing, especially if they have a fear of bugs. But a more positive outlook could be that fears are often conquered directly. Perhaps allowing a child to hold and look at insects so closely and without risk of being bitten, stung or startled will encourage them to turn over a new, entomological leaf. At 1 inch in diameter, they could potentially pose a choking hazard for very young children who may put them in their mouths (a tactic that always works: tell them not to do that!).
‘Astrophysics For Young People in a Hurry’
Celebrated astrophysicist Neil deGrasse Tyson presents a captivating introduction to the cosmos tailored for young readers. With clear explanations, vibrant illustrations, infographics and a touch of humor, Tyson breaks down complex astrophysical concepts into easily digestible parts, making the wonders and mysteries of our universe accessible to curious minds.
Pocket Scope Binoculars
There’s nothing quite like handing a child a pair of binoculars and watching their world expand. Suddenly, the backyard transforms into a safari, the park into a birdwatcher’s paradise, and even a simple walk becomes an expedition. These binoculars are lightweight enough for small hands yet sturdy enough to withstand enthusiastic adventures. They encourage kids to slow down, look closer and notice details they might otherwise miss—whether it’s a hawk circling above, the texture of tree bark or the hidden life of a pond. More than a tool, they’re an invitation to curiosity, helping young explorers see that discovery is always just a glance away
Animal Icon 10-In-1 Ballpoint Pen
For the young scholar or artist with a penchant for whimsy, the Animal Icon 10-In-1 Ballpoint Pen offers a satisfying twist on the everyday writing instrument. This clever pen features ten classic ink colors in one sleek package. It’s the little things.