I’m a sex engineer & have given 2,000 women the best orgasm of their lives – my other half knows all about it too
LYING down on a therapy table admin manager Jen* 32 settles down for 105 minutes of serious relaxation.
She has travelled 240 miles to London for the treatment, but it is not for a typical shiatsu, reflexology or pressure point relaxation treatment at a day spa.
Jen, a mum-of-two, has never had an orgasm and today but today she is hoping to change that with the help of a £290 Absolute Erotic Massage by Britain’s top orgasm expert – Colin Richards.
And she is set to leave a satisfied customer.
Within two hours Colin, a trained relationship and sex therapist and masseur, has worked a miracle.
Using massage techniques together with clitoral and vaginal stimulation he helps Jen reach orgasm for the first time in her life.
Jen is not the only woman Colin,65 who runs the globally recognised Intimacy Matters in Bermondsey London has helped.
“I have assisted more than 2000 women to have better orgasms,” he explains.
“Some have never reached orgasm with their own husbands and are amazed by how just one session with me can make them feel.
“Other women have never orgasmed in their life or are virgins and don’t even know what an orgasm feels like or is.”
But Colin isn’t just helping women, he has also helped thousands of couples by demonstrating how they can help their partner achieve ‘the best orgasm of their lives.’
He also works with women who need help overcoming sexual trauma in a safe environment.
“Other women simply have never allowed themselves to thoroughly enjoy pleasure and do not understand there is more than one type of orgasm,” he says.
“They leave me with a whole new lease of life and a better understanding about how they can please themselves or their partners.
“I have more than 8000 clients and demand is growing.”
Sex and relationship engineer, and practitioner Colin lives in Chelsea, London with his partner, Claire, 58, a management consultant.
He is a father of five children aged 37 to 29 from his first marriage which ended in divorce and is a proud grandfather of four grandkids aged seven to four years old.
He is the first to admit that dishing out orgasms for a living wasn’t in his life plan.
“I didn’t set out to be an orgasm expert and it’s a career which occurred later in life,” he says.
Colin spent 20 years managing and running his family’s 130 bed hotel in Salcombe, Devon before joining Lloyd’s Bank in 1988.
“I changed careers and went into banking and four years later Lloyds crashed, and I was £3 million in debt,” he says.
Colin was forced to sell the hotel his family owned and his first marriage fell apart.
“I worked for the hotel’s new owners for five years but knew I would need a different career,” he adds.
“I realised at 41 I needed to retrain and chose a sports massage course establishing business in Newton Abbott, Devon.”
In 2010 to understand the relationship between massaging and intimacy he began studying for a Diploma in Psychosexual Relationship Therapy.
“I was exploring my own sexuality at the time due to my marriage breakdown” Colin says.
“I realised through research massage I could help people with intimacy issues.
“I set up intimacy Matters in 2012 and developed unique sensual massage and counselling programmes to help people in aspects of their relationships and sexuality.
Afterwards, I felt so energised and went home that evening and had good sex with my husband
Colin's client
“If you are studying maths and hit a roadblock you get a maths tutor, it is the same with sex and orgasms.”
Colin says that while orgasms may be in his line of work, he does not consider himself a sex worker.
“When I first started sensual massage was more associated with escorts and the sex industry,” he says.
“I am not an escort or a sex worker. I am a trained sexual intimacy and sex engineer.
“Now though sensual massage and sex tutoring is mainstream.
“Since lockdown, the number of women coming to me wanting help with orgasms and to discover how to pleasure themselves and their partners has skyrocketed.”
Colin has also treated around 4000 men teaching them how to properly bring a woman to orgasm and how to focus on their partner not themselves.
“Other men come to me trying to understand their sexual orientation,” he says.
“Many simply need counselling and to show them how to simply be themselves.”
Colin has been so successful he boasts hundreds of five star reviews online.
“Many clients come back and return as volunteers who receive sensual massage in group classes or private tuition sessions,” he says.
“I need volunteers for lessons that demonstrate how to bring women to orgasm and many of my clients willingly help or people can apply online as volunteers.”
For those wanting to know what to expect from a session, then consider Beth’s* experience.
Beth, 45 is an Ealing-based marketing consultant and has been happily married for 15 years.
She visited Colin because despite her marriage she worried she was not experiencing an orgasm properly and was finding she was having to fake it in the bedroom.
“The first step was a counselling session to understand what was limiting my orgasm potential,” she says.
“Colin helped me understand why anxiety was not allowing my body to relax and what was causing the anxiety .
“Then it was time for a massage
“I was nervous, but a friend had recommended Colin and was raving about him.
“I decided to have a 105-minute full-body sensual massage in January.
“I got onto the table naked, and Colin began with a normal Swedish-style massage on my neck and back.
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“It was relaxing and he would occasionally go to hold my hand briefly and I could squeeze to let him know I was ok.
“I admit I felt vulnerable and nervous, but Colin explained I could communicate with a hand squeeze, and it made me feel safe and comfortable.”
About 35 minutes into the massage became more intimate – including clitoral and internal vaginal massaging which she had requested and signed written permission to receive.
Colin slowly ramped up the stimulation bringing her to the point of climax before slowing things down and starting again.
Beth says she completely zoned out and was swept away by the physical pleasure.
“I thought I had had around four orgasms but he said it was six, which was insane,” she says.
“I have never experienced that before.
“Afterwards, I felt so energised and went home that evening and had good sex with my husband. He had been supportive and now we’re talking about doing a couples massage.”
Colin says Beth’s experience is not unusual.
“Women do not know there are at least five if not more types of orgasms,” he says.
“I am a therapist who shows people what they can achieve and how to do that both for themselves and with their partners.”
Colin’s partner Claire says she understands Colin’s work is entirely therapeutic.
There are many times however I get home from work and just want a cuppa and to watch the television
Colin Richards
“If he were a gynaecologist, I would not have an issue,” she says.
“I apply the same logic to Colin’s work helping men and women orgasm and improve their sexual intimacy.
“Initially I was a little shocked but I watched him do a session and it amazed me.
“There are also added benefits. Our love life is adventurous.”
Colin adds: “There are many times however I get home from work and just want a cuppa and to watch the television.”
Colin says demand for his therapy sessions is growing globally and is helped by people being more willing to openly discuss sex and what they want from it.
He explains: “When clients visit the clinic there are many pictures of me with my partner.
“As mainstream therapist I never see clients outside the clinic this prevents any women becoming attached to me.”
Colin says he doesn’t get aroused during the massages because he is mainstream therapist who does this in a daily basis .
“Don’t forget many people come to me sexual trauma issues which require sensitivity and focus in treating ,” he adds.
“And yes, women have no problems paying £290 for an orgasm.
“For many it is life changing. Sex matters and understanding your body and what it can do is important.
“Orgasm therapy works if you work it.”