My partner cheated on me with my DAD – she said our sex was boring & come home from his drunk at 3am, I should’ve known
A MAN has revealed that his girlfriend cheated on him with his father.
The 25-year-old explained that not only did his partner, 22, have sex with his dad, 52, but she also sent him cheeky nude photos too.
Unsure on what to do, the anonymous man took to social media to reveal all, leaving many totally stunned.
Posting on Reddit, on the r/relationship_advice thread, the man titled his post ‘My girlfriend has slept with my dad’ and confessed: “I guess the title is self explanatory but I really don’t know what to do right now.
“My parents have been married since they were both 18 years old and my mum really loves him and she would be heartbroken if I told her what happened.”
The man then explained: “Long story short, me and my girlfriend had been together for two years and it seemed everything was perfect and going in the right direction.
“She had just recently graduated and we moved in together, but two weeks ago from now, she told me that our sex life was getting boring and told me previously she has a thing for way older men, but I guess I just brushed it off my mind because you know, since she’s with me, I trusted her and believed that she loved me.
“So my dad is a lawyer and my girlfriend got her driver’s licence revoked recently and my dad decided to help us with this case in court in order to get back her licence.
“So far everything was fine, and since I work I couldn’t always be present whenever my dad needed to talk to us in person, so my girlfriend started going to his office which is about 15 minutes from where we live.”
But cracks soon began to show, as the man added: “Last week she got home pretty late (around 3am) and she smelled exactly like my dad’s cologne and she came back in a whole different outfit than the one she left the house in and she’s drunk.
“Me being completely impulsive, I asked her where she was, and she just told me she went to meet her girlfriend after she had talked with my dad.
“She gave me a quick reply and went to take a shower, and left her purse in the living room, so since I was already suspicious about the whole situation, I reached for her purse and saw condoms there, which we haven’t used for a long time now.
“Not only that, I took a look at her phone (we know each other’s passwords) and she has been sending dirty pictures to my dad’s phone.”
Stunned by his discovery, the man confronted his girlfriend, to which she told him “that she was gonna tell me sooner or later but didn’t feel ready, and that it had been stronger than her (to resist an older man) and that she didn’t feel the same for me anymore.”
I took a look at her phone and she has been sending dirty pictures to my dad’s phone
Reddit poster
The poster continued: “My mum knows NOTHING about this, and I have no clue what to do.
“Both of them are a******s, and my mum has basically wasted her life married to a c**t who has no respect for her.
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“And honestly, I doubt my ex-girlfriend was the only woman he slept with during their 34 years of marriage.”
Eager for advice, he asked: “What should I do? Tell my mum? Let her live in ignorance? Got no idea what to do.”
Reddit users react
Reddit users were left open-mouthed by the man’s confession and many eagerly flocked to the comments to share their thoughts and advice on the situation.
Tell your mum immediately. You have no idea if your dad is doing this with other girls
Reddit user
One person advised: “Tell your whole family and don’t talk to your dad or ex anymore.”
Another added: “Break up with your girlfriend. Confront your father and tell him that if he doesn’t tell his wife then you will.”
Whilst a third recommended: “Dude. You tell your mum immediately. You have no idea if your dad is doing this with other girls.”
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Raucous Role Play: If your partner enjoys dressing up for fun, it shows creativity and a desire to keep things exciting. However, it might signal that he struggles with responsibility.
Multi-Partner Fantasies: Craving variety doesn’t always mean he wants to cheat. However, it could indicate deeper feelings of unfulfillment.
Power & Control: A little dominance is normal, but if it’s always about control, it may hide insecurities.
Adventure: Men seeking thrills may push boundaries, so be sure your comfort zone is respected.
Passion: If he’s romantic, he’s emotionally tuned in—though occasionally avoiding tough conversations.
Flexibility: Openness to new experiences is great, but constant novelty-seeking could mean avoiding emotional connection.
Red Flag: If control is his ultimate fantasy, it may signal a deeper struggle with power dynamics.
Following this, the Reddit poster later confirmed: “I told my mum about it and showed her a couple of messages I managed to screenshot, and she is going for the divorce.
“As of right now, she will be staying at my aunt’s house because she refuses to stay in the same house as my dad.
“To those of you telling me to break up with my girlfriend, I obviously did that the moment I found out about it and blocked her from every social media and her number.
“My mum’s family and I will be helping her through all of this process and make sure she gets to keep the house and make my dad go live elsewhere.
“Thank you all for the replies and the support some of you showed me in private messages.”