I’ve got the hots for the Grinch & love having sex to the film – I beg my man to dress up, it’s ruining our relationship
A WOMAN has revealed that her unusual sexual kink is destroying her relationship.
The 24-year-old explained that she has a Grinch fetish and is desperate for her 27-year-old boyfriend to dress up and get into character in the bedroom.
But the anonymous woman explained that her partner thinks her bedroom fantasy is ‘weird’ and it’s now causing friction between them.
Keen to open up on the situation, the woman took to social media to reveal all, leaving many open-mouthed.
Posting on Reddit, on the @r/copypasta thread, the woman titled her post ‘My Grinch fetish is destroying my relationship’.
She then confessed: “I have a Grinch fetish. My boyfriend knows about this and for the most part accepts it.
“He isn’t crazy about it and doesn’t really get it but he at least tries which is all I ask.
“He’ll sometimes read the book to me to set the mood, or if he’s really feeling kinky tell me “you’re a mean one” in the heat of the moment.”
The woman explained that her partner isn’t keen on the kink but is happy to watch the film when they get frisky.
She added: “He’s even begrudgingly come around to at least playing one of the three versions of the film every time we do the deed (although we tend to stay away from the live-action one because it’s too much for me).
“The thing is, I don’t want to hear about the Grinch or listen to the Grinch or watch the Grinch. I want to be f****d by the Grinch.”
But this isn’t quite enough for this woman, as she claimed that she wants her man to dress up in the bedroom.
She continued: “My boyfriend asked me what I wanted for Christmas and I told him straight up.
“I told him to put on the greenest, silkiest Grinch costume he could find, kidnap me from my bed on Christmas Eve, and then ravage me in front of the Christmas tree.
It’s really hard for me to see past my sexual proclivities especially during the Christmas season
Reddit poster
“He flat out refused. Said it was too weird for him.
“I was literally begging this man and it ended up turning into a fight where he admitted he only gave into my initial Grinch kinks to placate me and was still uncomfortable about the fact that I had moaned ‘Grinch’ during sex a few weeks ago, but only because his song was playing in the background.”
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And now, her partner has set the record straight on her Christmas kink, as she admitted: “So he’s drawn a line. And if I don’t drop the Grinch fetish he’s done for good.
“I don’t want to lose him over this. But it’s really hard for me to see past my sexual proclivities especially during the Christmas season.”
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Raucous Role Play: If your partner enjoys dressing up for fun, it shows creativity and a desire to keep things exciting. However, it might signal that he struggles with responsibility.
Multi-Partner Fantasies: Craving variety doesn’t always mean he wants to cheat. However, it could indicate deeper feelings of unfulfillment.
Power & Control: A little dominance is normal, but if it’s always about control, it may hide insecurities.
Adventure: Men seeking thrills may push boundaries, so be sure your comfort zone is respected.
Passion: If he’s romantic, he’s emotionally tuned in—though occasionally avoiding tough conversations.
Flexibility: Openness to new experiences is great, but constant novelty-seeking could mean avoiding emotional connection.
Red Flag: If control is his ultimate fantasy, it may signal a deeper struggle with power dynamics.
Unsure on what to do, she asked social media users: “Is there any way we can even compromise on this, or do I simply need a more adventurous man?”
Reddit users react
Reddit users were left gobsmacked by the woman’s claims and many flocked to the comments to share their thoughts on the unique situation.
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One person said: “This woman is off her rocker if this is true.”
Another joked: “Nope. There’s nothing I want to do on a hot summer night than put on a hot furry costume to have sex.”
A third commented: “You cannot force a partner to take part in a fetish you have that they aren’t comfortable with.
“Consent is king and required of both parties.”
Meanwhile, another shocked user penned: “That’s enough Reddit for today.”