Teri Hatcher, 59, says it's 'just not that fun' to date at her age
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- Teri Hatcher, 59, doesn't enjoy dating at her age.
- Hatcher said unlike what people think, men are not "lining up outside her door."
- She also feels like it would be "too much" to date younger men.
At 59, Teri Hatcher would rather spend time with her cat than date.
During an interview on Wednesday with Sherri Shepherd on the talk show "Sherri," the "Desperate Housewives" star said she doesn't date much anymore.
"I used to date, and you'd look across the table at the guy, and you'd think, 'OK, I wonder if we're going to end up in bed together. And now I look across the table, and I just think, 'When am I going to have to change this guy's diaper?'" she said, adding, "It's just not that fun anymore."
When asked if she would consider dating younger men, Hatcher said it would "just be too much."
"I'd just feel like I'd have to be keeping up. I'd have to, like, 'How do I look in a bikini today?' and I just don't care," she said.
The actor was previously married twice, to Markus Leithold from 1988 to 1989 and to Jon Tenney from 1994 to 2003, whom she shares a daughter with.
Now, people around her say that men must be "lining up out the door," she said. "And I'm like, 'No, no. I open it once in a while, and there's nobody there."
Hatcher, who stars in the holiday movie "How to Fall in Love By Christmas," said she mostly "dates" her cat. When she's on Duolingo learning French, her cat jumps onto her chest and sits there.
"It's better than any date well that you could possibly go on," she said.
In 2019, Hatcher told People that she is content with being single.
"I have been single for a very long time but there is nothing lonely about my life. I want to remove the stigma of that," she said.
A representative for Hatcher did not immediately respond to a request for comment from Business Insider sent outside regular business hours.
Dating later in life
After getting out of a long-term relationship, Jennie Young downloaded her first dating app at 50.
She quickly grew frustrated by the pool of potential matches on the app. "There were a lot of bad actors, and the behavior wasn't just annoying; it was deeply problematic," she previously wrote for BI.
Young, a professor of rhetoric and women and gender studies, responded by starting a project called the Burned Haystack Dating Method. This method encourages daters to filter out time wasters and red flags.
Other older women enjoy being able to experiment with dating apps.
Carolina Gonzalez previously told BI that it's "weird to go out with anybody" after being in a long marriage.
"Though there is still a hope you will meet someone and fall in love, but I am probably never going to meet someone and have what I had before," she said.
Still, she enjoys being able to meet different people of all ages. Her life is not shutting down with age, she said, but opening up.
And some prefer to stay single. Bella DePaulo, 70, previously told BI that she has never been in a relationship and doesn't intend to be in one.
"I'm happy and flourishing because I'm single, not in spite of it," she said.