6 essential tips for anyone considering van life, according to a traveler who's explored all 50 states in an RV

Social media paints a rosy picture of life on the road, but reality is often less glamorous.

Talisman said that new RVers may have every detail of their trip figured out, but there will always be things beyond their control that could prevent them from sticking to plan.

"First of all, the weather might deter you; second, the campsite you looked up might be closed now, or any sort of thing can happen," Talisman said.

For this reason, she recommends that people "roll with the punches and not get really upset when things go wrong" because that is the best way to embrace the experience.

Talisman said their van's transmission stopped working this summer. They had to immediately get it fixed and, in the meantime, find alternative lodging, all of which cost a lot of money.

Online RV community forums and repair websites state that a single transmission fix can cost anywhere from $1,200 to $12,000, depending on the damages.

"It's not only your car; it's your home. So you have to figure out not just a car to use but also a home to live in while your van is being worked on. Especially if you bought a used van," said Talisman.

This is why she recommends that first-time RVers build a savings pool for their new lifestyle in the same way that people with permanent homes do.

"I always say, 'Go with your gut' if you ever have a weird feeling about anything," said Talisman.

Over the past three years of traveling, she said she's had many suspicious experiences. One particular that she remembers well is from a trip to Bend, Oregon.

She told BI that a pickup truck parked next to her van and kept the engine running, even though there was plenty of open space and other areas to choose from. She immediately thought something was amiss and moved their van to another spot.

"I definitely think this is especially crucial if you're traveling alone. But even if you're a couple, listening to your gut is always important," Talisman said.

Talisman said people should account for and accept that everyday activities, like cooking and cleaning, can take much longer in a van.

Not all places have a grocery store around the corner, so sometimes, you may have to drive for miles for milk.

"Just allocate more time for everything. It's hard in the beginning, but you'll get used to that after a while," she said.

A good way to do this is to track which techniques and what type of routine work best for you on a week-by-week basis. Establishing a routine will initially be difficult, but Talisman says it is possible over time.

"Really practice being in the moment," said Talisman.

She said that gratitude comes naturally to many van-lifers, like herself, because most days, they're exposed to the most stunning sights outdoors, leaving them in awe.

"There are so many times my husband and I would look at each other, and even though we lived in it [the van] for three years, we'd be like, 'I can't believe we live in a van,'" said Talisman.

Many van lifers can either get lonely or become too comfortable being by themselves. However, Talisman thinks "community is important."

She said, "I can't only hang out with my husband. I need other social interactions."

The best way to make friends on the go? "Just meet and talk to people at campsites or follow the big van life community on TikTok and Instagram." But if all else fails, "join van meetups, which are specifically organized for RVers."