I’m 24 & have already slept with 150 people but can’t stop – I can’t make friends as all I think about is sex, it’s hell
A 24-YEAR-OLD man has revealed that he has already slept with 150 people and can’t stop.
Not only does he spend all his time masturbating and sleeping with women, but all he thinks about is sex too.
A man has revealed that he is only 24, but has already slept with 150 people *stock image*[/caption] The law student confessed that all he thinks about is sex and masturbating, so much so that he can’t sustain friendships or complete simple daily tasks[/caption]As a result, the young man has confessed that he hasn’t got any friends and even struggles to study or do everyday, essential tasks.
Keen to open up on his unique situation, the man took to social media to share his confession, leaving many open-mouthed.
Posting on Reddit on the r/selfimprovement thread, writing under the username @roadtosuckcess, the man titled his post ‘I am addicted to women and sex’.
The young law student then said: “In my childhood, I was always insecure about numerous traits about my body and personality.
“After having sex, I was told I was well endowed and attractive, at least that’s WHEN I realised it.
“I slowly overcame my insecurity and now I can gladly say that i’m extremely confident in every way, but at a cost.”
The man explained that even when he is in a relationship, he can’t stop thinking about other women.
He admitted: “In a relationship, not looking at or thinking of other women was impossible, I crave it maliciously.
“When I am single, like now for instance, most of my time revolves around masturbation, sex and dating.
“It has gotten to a point where I don’t even study or do essential tasks, I squeeze them in at the last minute.”
He then shared how his addiction is affecting his life, as he opened up: “I have this sick addiction of having sex with NEW women, it’s always in my head and it’s impacting my life.
“I’ve also been a solitary individual where most of my social life is women, I don’t have many male friends and I can’t seem to make ones that last, we always drift apart.
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- Boomers – three times a month
“Contemplating this has left me to think that I am compensating for the lack of social life with dating and sex, and the lack of dopamine from stimulators such as going out, accomplishments or working out with masturbation.”
Unsure of what to do and how to move forward, he wrote: “This might sound silly but I can’t stop.
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“I tried letting go but I always fail to not masturbate for more than 24 hours.”
Keen for advice, the anonymous man asked: “Any similar stories or help? Ideas on how to approach this?”
REDDIT USERS REACT
Reddit users were left stunned by the man’s confession and were keen to share their advice in the comments – with many urging him to try therapy.
It’s clear as day to me that this is sex addiction, it’s a real thing. Talk to a therapist
Reddit user
One person said: “Sex addiction is a real thing. I recommend seeing a therapist. No harm in that anyway.”
Another added: “You need treatment. A therapist or outpatient program of some sort.”
A third commented: “It’s clear as day to me that this is sex addiction, it’s a real thing. Talk to a therapist asap.”
At the same time, one user questioned: “You sound like me. If you don’t mind me asking how many women have you slept with?”
To this, the man admitted: “I think it’s near 150 and I was in two long term relationships.”
Help for mental health
If you, or anyone you know, needs help dealing with mental health problems, the following organisations provide support.
The following are free to contact and confidential:
- Samaritans, www.samaritans.org, 116 123, jo@samartiands.org.uk
- CALM (the leading movement against suicide in men) www.thecalmzone.net, 0800 585 858
- Papyrus (prevention of young suicide) www.papyrus-uk.org, 0800 068 41 41
- Shout (for support of all mental health) www.giveusashout.org/get-help/, text 85258 to start a conversation
Mind, www.mind.org, provide information about types of mental health problems and where to get help for them. Email info@mind.org.uk or call the infoline on 0300 123 3393 (UK landline calls are charged at local rates, and charges from mobile phones will vary).
YoungMinds run a free, confidential parents helpline on 0808 802 5544 for parents or carers worried about how a child or young person is feeling or behaving. The website has a chat option too.
Rethink Mental Illness, www.rethink.org, gives advice and information service offers practical advice on a wide range of topics such as The Mental Health Act, social care, welfare benefits, and carers rights. Use its website or call 0300 5000 927 (calls are charged at your local rate).
Heads Together, www.headstogether.org.uk, is the a mental health initiative spearheaded by The Royal Foundation of The Prince and Princess of Wales.