My husband passed away & I was horrified when I looked at his laptop – he’d been cheating & even told people I was dead
HAVING your spouse pass away at a premature age is a heart breaking situation we all hope will never happen to us.
But that’s exactly what happened to one woman, Cherry, who was devastated when her partner passed away, but she soon found out her dream marriage wasn’t what it seemed.
Taking to social media, Cherry found out that her partner had been cheating on her for years, speaking to multiple women.
In the clip, she said she went onto her partner’s laptop after his passing – probably to find old photos and memories of them together.
But when she started digging she was horrified to see multiple messages from women he had contacted, who had turned into online girlfriends.
Cherry was rightfully hurt when she realised her partner’s extramarital affairs – but it got worse when she realised what he’d been saying about her.
Multiple messages showed that he told these women that cherry had died, left him for another man and even that she was in a coma.
“My wife just died I’m a single dad,” read one, another claimed “She left me for another man” while a third read “She was in an accident and she’s in a coma I’m all alone.”
He told other women he was in a loveless marriage as well.
Stunned by the revelation, Cherry decided to do even more digging into her husband’s secret life, and checked his bank statements.
There, she found he had spend thousands of pounds on porn sites and had even sent gifts to his online girlfriends while the pair were together.
Cherry decided to contact one of the women – who said she’d give her all of the information she wanted, for a price, which she declined.
Before slamming the laptop shut, it dawned on her she never really knew him and had more than his passing to get over.
The ordeal happened four years ago and thankfully, Cherry has found peace and remarried and has a child.
The clip posted to her TikTok account @cherrybombsquad007 has since gone viral with over 3 million views and 180k likes.
One person wrote: “My mum went through the same thing. She put his ashes in the freezer cause he hated being cold.”
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
Another commented: “I can’t imagine losing my husband and then LOSING my husband. I’m sorry for both your losses.”
“You’re the first widow I’ve seen talk about this. I’m widowed and I found some of the same stuff. We need to be friends,” penned a third.
Meanwhile a fourth said: “Sped that grieving process right up!!”
“How thoughtful – He was making it easier for you to deal with his passing,” claimed a fifth.
Someone else added: “The way I’d be 5 glasses of wine deep with the Ouija board out.”
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