I’ve slept with my girlfriend’s mother, my friend’s sister and even talked my THERAPIST into bed, but I can’t help it
A MAN has revealed that he has slept with his friend’s sister, his girlfriend’s mother and even his therapist, but he can’t help it, because he’s a sex addict.
The 30-year-old confessed that not only has he cheated on every single partner he’s ever been with, but he’s done it multiple times too.
But that’s not all, as he also watches porn and masturbates at work too.
The man took to social media to open up on his sex addiction, leaving many open-mouthed.
Posting on Reddit, on the r/relationship_advice thread, the man titled his post ‘Being a sex addict is destroying my life.’
The anonymous man then confessed: “I’m a sex addict. Sex has always been an important part of my life.
“I have money and I’m also fairly good looking…women add me on Instagram, talk to me at bars, etc.
“I play several instruments, speak five languages, travel a lot.. and I’m pretty fun to be around…so girls think I’m interesting.”
But despite his successful lifestyle, the man explained: “I need advice on how to control myself.
“I’m the kind of guy that watches porn and masturbates at work.
“I swear I’m not a bad person, but I just can’t avoid it.
“My friends think that I live the life of a rockstar…but they don’t get that I’m becoming more and more depressive with this lifestyle…all my friends are in serious relationships, building houses, having financial stability and having children. I envy them.
“They have great careers and I’m stuck because of my addiction.”
The man revealed that when he was single, he coped fine with his sex addiction, despite masturbating four or five times a day and sleeping with two to three different women a week.
But he shared: “I need to masturbate when I wake up and I can’t sleep if I don’t do it.
“During my first relationship, I managed to control myself for three months..but then I couldn’t resist a girl that hit on me.
“This has happened in other relationships as well. I don’t like the idea of open relationships, I want to be an average Joe and to have a woman and be decent to her.
“I live in a small town, but I travel for work, so I decided to f**k random girls only when I travelled.”
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He admitted that he would meet sexual partners through dating apps, such as Tinder and Bumble, and has slept with a variety of different women.
He continued: “Sometimes I f****d waitresses, clerks, air hostess… whatever… This led me to watch more porn because I couldn’t get all the sex I wanted in my hometown.
“Eventually, I decided to f**k high class escorts…I was spending $3k [£2.3k] a month doing this…”
I’ve cheated on all my partners multiple times…I regret it REALLY BAD afterwards, but I just can’t help it
Reddit poster
But the man confessed that his addiction has left him feeling “anxious and miserable” and has led him into some very “bizarre situations”.
Not only has he caught a variety of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), such as Herpes, Chlamydia and Gonorrhoea, but he also confessed: “I’ve cheated on all my partners multiple times…I regret it REALLY BAD afterwards, but I just can’t help it.”
He then added: “Dated multiple girls at once (I mean, I knew their families, friends, colleagues, etc) and cheated on them with each other.
“F****d a friend’s mother…this ruined our friendship. F****d a friend’s sister. F****d a girlfriend’s mother (ruined our relationship and her relationship with her mother).”
If that wasn’t bad enough, he admitted: “Destroyed at least three relationships of girls who were in serious relationships and decided to have sex with me.
“Was caught on camera at my building, neighbours complained of loud noises from my bedroom that can be heard at the elevator hall.”
He even claimed: “Tried therapy…f****d the therapist.”
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Not only has he caused the breakdown of a lot of relationships, but he also shared: “I’m still spending a lot of money on this.
“My friends don’t understand me and some of them don’t even know that I’m like this because I know that people don’t want to be around someone like me.
“Anyway, now I met this girl that doesn’t know about my past..she is caring, loving and I want to settle down with her.
“We don’t have the same sex drive but I love her and I want to treat her right…I’ve already done some bad things after I met her but I feel so guilty and sad about it.”
The man confessed that he wants to “improve” himself and “become a better human being” and as a result, was keen for advice.
REDDIT USERS REACT
Reddit users flocked to the comments to share their thoughts on the man’s situation – and many advised him to do “serious” and “long term” therapy.
You just need to reduce the time you spend doing sexual stuff, slowly but surely, and find a fulfilling hobby to distract yourself from these needs
Reddit user
One person said: “Therapy. Serious long term therapy.”
Another added: “Get a therapist you are not gonna be attracted to.”
A third commented: “Wow, I mean wow… I think you just need to reduce the time you spend doing sexual stuff, slowly but surely, and find a fulfilling hobby to distract yourself from these needs, like picking up the gym, doing art classes, etc.”
Whilst someone else expressed: “I am a compassionate person. But reading about how many lives you destroyed because of sex and you thinking that you are a good person makes me feel sorry for the woman you are with right now.”