A girl I like stopped messaging me, but now she’s everywhere I turn – what do I do?
DEAR DEIDRE: THE girl I like stopped messaging me, but now she’s everywhere I turn.
I can’t help thinking this is more than just a coincidence and that she’s trying to show me she’s interested again.
I’m 19 and a student.
Last year this girl, also 19, and I started chatting.
But she ghosted me in the summer.
Now I see her on campus.
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If I turn to look at her, I swear that sometimes she’s looking too.
Am I reading too much into it?
MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE
DEIDRE SAYS: It’s impossible to say whether this is coincidence or if she is trying to get your attention because she’s realised she does like you.
The only thing you can do to be sure is ask.
Next time you see her, you could stop and say hi and gauge her reaction.
Alternatively, you could message again.
You risk being ignored, but at least you’ll know where you stand.