All the signs Lily Allen’s four-year marriage to David Harbour hit the rocks amid ‘split’ as she joins dating
LILY Allen has reportedly turned to elite dating app Raya after splitting from husband David Harbour – and there have been a number of clues hinting at marital woe.
A big giveaway of domestic unrest is how the singer and her actor husband haven’t been seen together publicly for three months.
The star pairing were last seen together watching NFL sides New York Jets and Denver Broncos face off at MetLife Stadium.
Insiders claim the pair have been living separate lives for months, suggesting things went sour not long after the game.
The Daily Mail claims pals of the mum-of-two have confirmed that Lily, 39, and her second husband David, 49, have “separated” and that she has set up a profile on Raya while looking for love.
She jokes in her profile bio: “Looking for someone to start couples therapy with” and is “visiting Los Angeles from New York”.
The Sun has contacted their reps for comment.
Most tellingly, Lily was damning in her assessment of men in a recent episode of her podcast, Miss Me?
She told her co-host and friend Miquita Oliver she was “bored” of them and made a point of saying her husband was “800 miles away”.
Her wedding ring was notably missing for the Christmas-themed recording, too.
During one episode, Lily candidly told how she had found herself screaming at her two daughters while going through a tough spell.
She said: “I exploded and screamed at the kids. I was like, ‘I can’t handle this at the moment; I’m going through so much, I need you two to behave yourselves’.”
The Smile hitmaker spoke of going to therapy to work through some of her issues, and opened up on how she has stopped eating while going through a recent rough patch.
She said: “I’ve been going through a tough time over the last few months and my eating has become an issue.
“My therapist and I talk about it and she says ‘How long has this been going on?’ And I said, ‘about three years really. ‘And she’s like, ‘why haven’t you mentioned it before?’
“And it’s not because I’m lying about it. It’s just because it’s not seemed at the top of the list of important things that I need to talk about, but obviously it is.
“I’m really not in a great place mentally at the moment, and I’m not eating. I’m not hungry.”
Lily continued: “I obviously am hungry, but my body and brain are so disconnected from each other that my body… the messages of hunger are not going through my body to my brain.
“I’m not avoiding food, I’m just not thinking about it because I’m so in my head. My body’s, like, a few steps behind me.”
Lily was then coy on her relationship when pressed by fans in a Q&A.
There was speculation the couple was going through a rough patch, but Lily humorously responded to concerns by referencing her first marriage to Sam Cooper.
She said: “Yes, I am divorced . . . from one marriage.
“But I am also in another marriage currently.”
An insider told The Sun at the time: “Lily and David have barely been together for the past three months and have been living separate lives.
“When she was in London for the Pillowman, David was spotted at one performance in July before Lily was left by herself.
“In her downtime, Lily would be with mates in London or her kids. When she went back to the US with them, there was no sign of David.”
Lily relocated to New York with David and her children Ethel Mary, 13, and Marnie Rose, 11, in 2020.
Her kids go to a private school in Brooklyn, New York.