I desperately miss my girlfriend but she dumped me for her control freak ex-husband
DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend was due to move in with me after her divorce but she’s gone back to her husband. I’m gutted.
I’m a 39-year-old man and myself divorced. She’s 38. We were together for a year but her husband made her life hell even though they were separated.
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He went ballistic when he found out about us and bombarded her with texts day after day.
He made her feel guilty about leaving their kids with him to spend time with me.
When her divorce came through she told him she wanted to be with me. A few weeks later she became distant then phoned to say she was finishing with me.
She and her husband are trying again. I am struggling to move on and I miss her.
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DEIDRE SAYS: I do feel for you. Being rejected is painful
I worry for your girlfriend going back to an ex who sounds controlling and domineering. That’s not good for their children to experience either.
If you think she may yet leave him again, for good, tell her you will be there for her, but set a time limit – say six months – and be clear that you will then move on.
My e-leaflet Mend Your Broken Heart will help.
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