DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife has gone off sex and it’s making me feel very down, like I’m doing something wrong or that she doesn’t fancy me any more.
We have been married for six years and our sex life was brilliant at first.My wife has gone off sex and it’s making me feel very down[/caption]
We used to have sex daily, sometimes several times, and she had multiple orgasms.
She used to initiate it but never does now. When I make a move she shuts me down and tells me I’m obsessed with it.
That just isn’t the case. I think she’s beautiful and sexy but I also really love sharing days out and just talking to her. We’re in our late 20s.
I’ve tried explaining how I feel but she says there’s no problem.
I know she had partners before me and now wonder if she’s cheating.
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DEIDRE SAYS: If there are no other signs she’s straying, the explanation is more likely to lie closer to home.
Ask her what has changed for her. Could she be feeling you leave most of the chores to her – maybe without even noticing?
Or was the sex you used to share not as satisfying for her as for you?
There is an answer, but you need to listen to learn what it is.
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